Not sure about your relationship? · for iPhone
Not sure about us? Get clear, privately.
A 60-second note each night about how you felt around them. Over time, your own words show you the pattern. We won't tell you what to do. No score, no verdict.
Room to think, without anyone pushing.
Asking yourself "should I break up?" is hard enough. Friends pick sides. Quizzes hand out verdicts. This just helps you hear yourself, quietly, on your own phone.
It stays with you either way.
If you choose to work on it, your notes are yours to keep. If it ends, the app walks with you through leaving well, the first days and moving on. Same quiet place, same privacy.
Somewhere to land at 2 am.
When it's late and your head is loud, it asks one question: what's happening right now? A few minutes to write it out, or to ride out a feeling until it passes.
How it works
- Write one honest line.Sixty seconds, once a night: did you feel more like yourself around them, smaller, or somewhere between? Nobody else sees it.
- Notice the pattern.The things you keep coming back to, in your own words, gathered over the weeks. "Not deciding yet" counts as an answer.
- Decide when you're ready.Or don't, yet. It never pushes either way.
Private by design, not by setting.
Built for people who may be sharing a home, a phone plan or an iCloud account with the person they're thinking about.
Your journal stays on your phone
Notes, journal pages and sealed drafts are planned to live only on your iPhone. If you chat with the AI, your messages are processed to reply and not kept. No account, no ads, no tracking.
Looks like nothing
A neutral name, an optional plain icon, Face ID lock and quiet notifications that just say "A moment for you".
Safety comes first
If you ever feel afraid of someone, help is one tap away on every screen, with hotlines and how to plan a safe exit.
Free for the hard nights. One fair price for the rest.
- The tools for right now are free, forever: riding out the urge, sealing the message, your notes, crisis help.
- The full journey is one payment, yours to keep. If you ever stop using it, everything you wrote stays yours to read and export.
- No weekly plans. No surprise renewals. No quiz before a paywall.
Questions
What is OK Soonish?
OK Soonish is an iPhone app for breakup recovery, coming soon from SideEye Labs. It helps you get through the hard nights after a breakup (no contact, the urge to text an ex, the replaying), work through the grief, and move on at your own pace. It also has a quiet space for when you're not sure about your relationship and want to think it through privately.
Is this therapy?
No. OK Soonish is a self-help tool for getting through hard moments and thinking things through. It isn't therapy, medical care or a crisis service, and it doesn't diagnose or treat anything. If things feel like too much, please talk to someone: 988 in the US, or findahelpline.com anywhere else.
Is it private?
It's built for privacy, without pretending to be perfect. Your journal, notes and sealed drafts stay on your phone: no account, no ads, no tracking. If you choose to chat with the optional AI, your messages are sent securely to an AI model (Anthropic's, through Vercel's AI Gateway) only to write a reply, with zero data retention, and they aren't used to train AI. A neutral name, Face ID lock and vague notifications are planned for anyone who shares a phone or a home.
Will it tell me whether to stay or leave?
Never. There's no score, no verdict and no red-flag count. It helps you notice what you feel, in your own words, and helps you through whatever happens next. The one exception: if you tell it you're afraid of someone, it puts your safety first and shows you where to get help.
When does it come out?
We're building it now for iPhone. Join the waitlist and we'll send one email on launch day.
What will it cost?
The tools for the hard nights will be free. The full journey is planned as a single one-time purchase, with no weekly plans and no subscription for grief. We haven't set prices yet.
What if I'm in danger right now?
Please don't wait for an app. Call your local emergency number. In the US you can call or text 988, or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. Anywhere else, findahelpline.com lists free, confidential lines in your country. Our help page has more numbers: oksoonish.com/help.
What happens to my email?
We use it for one thing: telling you when OK Soonish launches. We don't share or sell it, and the email won't mention breakups in the subject line. Ask us any time and we'll delete it.
Take your time. It'll keep.
OK Soonish is coming to iPhone. Leave your email and we'll tell you the day it's ready.